No matter how well itâs going with someone youâre dating, the real test of whether the relationship progresses happens when you finally see each otherâs homes. Sometimes itâs a relief, other times itâs downright frightening and a thread on Redditâs Ask Women section is revealing the things that make us say ânope!â
It asks, âWomen of Reddit: You go back to your dateâs place and seeing this makes you leave immediately. What is it?â These are some of the most interesting responses:
- âA poster of a hot bikini babe/porn star girl who looks nothing like me.â
- âAnimal feces on the floor. Shows a serious lack of responsibility, maturity, and I question their hygiene practices.â
- âA dirty bathroom. Also, if they donât have sheets and just a dirty blanket covering their mattress.â
- âEvidence of a girlfriendâ
- âBeard trimmings everywhere, mold or grime in the tub, no hand soap, and crusty man funk smells.â
- âA mattress on the floor always gets me running. Like, youâre an adult, act like it.â
- âFemale toiletries and stuff all over.â
- âViking paraphernalia. I've dated some weird guys but the ones who are obsessed with Vikings are the most delusional.â
- âNo books anywhere.â
- âLives at parentsâ house and didnât tell me before arriving.â
- âA hole in the wall like they punched itâ
- âAn absurd amount of anime girl itemsâ
- âTrash as decor, i.e empty liquor bottles on displayâ
- âI donât have time to describe the actual apartment that I experienced but letâs say it starts with pet rats in plastic bins right when you walk in, includes a car engine in the bedroom, and ends with the night table that was just piled up clothes. I tried to be nice, but I should have run.â
Check it out at Reddit/Ask Women